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Baptism





Cross Roads Lutheran Parish believes that the sacraments of Holy Baptism and Holy Communion are central to living a life of faith. In the waters of Baptism, individuals or parents, sponsors and the congregation, confess their faith together and make promises to:

live among God’s faithful people;

hear the Word of God and share in the Lord’s Supper;

proclaim the good news of God in Christ through word and deed;

serve all people following the example of Jesus; and,

strive for justice and peace in all the earth. – (ELW page 234)

It is the desire of all the ministries of Cross Roads Lutheran Parish to pass on faith and equip and empower others in service to Jesus Christ. This includes ministry that encourages cross-generational opportunities to build faith in God with members, family, friends, and those who are yet to come. Relationships are key in passing on faith and being disciples of Jesus Christ. Ministries of Cross Roads includes but is not limited to: outreach to others, care of members, faith formation and discernment, equipping and empowering the baptized for ministry, and following where God is leading and guiding to serve all God’s people in our communities as well as beyond. Cross Roads Lutheran Parish encourages opportunities where God’s beloved children can support, encourage, share the Gospel, and pray for and with each other.


Five Principles that Guide Ministry and Cross Generational Faith Formation at Cross Roads Lutheran Parish are:

1. Faith is formed by the power of the Holy Spirit through trusted relationships, often in our own homes. Faith is passed on first and foremost in the home and we hope to equip, encourage, and partner with parents and caregivers.

2. The church is a living partnership between the ministry of the congregation and the ministry of the home.

3. Where Christ is present in faith, home is church too. The church is not a building, but a community of believers that can be present anywhere, not just in the building where we gather together on Sunday mornings and other times.

4. Faith is taught and caught. The opportunities we have for our children and youth to see faith in action are vital to their faith development. It is not just about what we teach, but youth need living examples of people trying to live the faith and encourage them in their journey.

5. If we want Christian children and youth, we need Christian parents and adults. As adults, we need to keep learning and be willing to grow and stretch. So that, together we may grow in our lives as disciples of Jesus.

*Five Principles taken from “Frogs Without Legs Can’t Hear” by David Anderson and Paul Hill



Baptism defined





Baptism is a gift of grace in which God, through water and word, claims us as his own. In the Lutheran church, baptism is one of two sacraments through which we are made new, forgiven people, adopted into God’s family, loved for life and beyond. In baptism, God initiates a relationship with us through the work of the Holy Spirit. In baptism, God chooses us and we joyfully respond to that choosing. In the same way that we do not choose our parents but respond to their love, the same is true in our relationship with God.

For Martin Luther, baptism was the primary sacrament. It marks our birth into a life lived in God. It reminds us of God’s claim upon our lives and God’s desire for us to know the joy of his love. From a more theological perspective, baptism also reminds us that a life lived in relationship with God is a daily “dying and rising”; dying to living our way or the way of our current culture, and rising to new life to live, like Christ, in God’s way.

In baptism God claims us as children, adopts us into the family of God’s people, forgives us our sin for turning away from God, gives us the gift of his presence through the Holy Spirit, and promises us eternal life. A life of faith begins in the water and Word coming as the promise of God’s love for us in Holy Baptism.

The following are guiding polices for Cross Roads Lutheran Parish Congregations.


1. All are welcome to be baptized into the Christian faith through baptism. There is no minimum or maximum age for baptism.

2. Prior to the baptism, ministry staff will meet with the individual or family to get acquainted and to respond to any questions they may have. This visit can be at their home, at the church, or another location decided upon by ministerial staff and the family. Topics for the meeting can be:

 why Lutherans do baptism,

 what will happen that day,

 and the role as the one being baptized or as a parent, grandparent, or sponsor

3. On the day of the baptism, parents, sponsors, ministerial staff and those being baptized will gather about 30 minutes before the worship service time. Usually they will meet in the main entry area of the church.

4. When a child or child(ren) are baptized, the family is encouraged to choose godparents/sponsors who practice faith in the Christian tradition and, if possible, can be present for the baptism. These godparents/sponsors will be asked to profess their faith and make promises regarding the spiritual direction of the child(ren).

5. As a faith community, the congregation makes promises on behalf of the one being baptized. When possible, baptisms should be in the context of a regularly scheduled worship service with the gathered community. However, there could be unavoidable circumstances that occur that make it difficult or impossible for the Baptism to be held within a community. When this happens, Cross Roads Lutheran Parish congregations will offer members to be available to attend.

6. All those who desire to be baptized, or who desire to have their children baptized are welcome at Cross Roads. Baptism is just the beginning of a life-long journey of relationship with Jesus Christ. Baptism is also a partnership in which parents, godparents/sponsors, together with the entire congregation are equipped to joyfully work together to raise a child in faith. Because of this partnership we encourage parents to engage in an on-going relationship with Cross Roads or another faith community for their own growth and support. If family membership is elsewhere, Cross Roads congregations will transfer membership back to their home congregation.

7. For good order and in accordance with the congregational constitution and bylaws, a record of the baptism will be kept in the records according to the policy of each congregation. Information that should be kept is full name of the baptized, parents full name and mother’s maiden name, date of baptism, date of birth, place of birth, baptismal sponsor’s names, and congregational membership, if other than Cross Roads.

8. Each congregation can determine if they would like to present mementos such as a candle, napkin, robe, certificate, Bible/children’s Bible/book, baby blanket, medallion, teaching information about celebrating and observing baptismal anniversaries and passing on faith, or other special remembrances.

9. Ministry and activities at Cross Roads Lutheran Parish that support the ministry of the baptized and the baptismal promises are administrational groups such as Parish Council, Congregational Councils and committees. Cross generational and faith formation programs such as but not limited to Sunday School, Confirmation, youth groups, Women’s Ministries, Men’s Ministries, Fellowship groups, Bible Studies, and Milestone ministry.

10. As a way to remind the congregation of the importance of the promises of baptism and equip and empower them, each congregation can recognize the baptized each year at a remembrance of Baptism. The purpose of this event is to educate and provide resources that families can use in the home to pass on the faith to children. The event can also provide resources to encourage adults to use faith practices, bless the baptized during a worship service, and to receive a small gift to remind all of the call to the ministry of the baptized.

11. In the case for the need of an emergency baptism, the ministry of the baptized allows for a lay-person to baptize another. For good order, Cross Roads Lutheran Parish strongly encourages that every attempt be made to contact the rostered ministerial staff. Following an emergency baptism the ministerial or secretarial staff will be contacted to complete the record keeping.



Milestones - Celebrating the Anniversary of Your Baptism



Light the Candle



Baptism is an important day in the life of a Christian. Light the baptismal candle to remember that Jesus is the Light of the World....


Celebrating Baptismal Anniversary Ideas-download



Keep the Mementos



Keep a box of the mementos from the day. The napkin, the candle, the robe, the banner, Bible, shell, book, the cake topper, and all the rest. Bring out the box each year and talk about what Baptism means . Talk about how we live out the baptismal promises....

live among God’s faithful people;

hear the Word of God and share in the Lord’s Supper;

proclaim the good news of God in Christ through word and deed;

serve all people following the example of Jesus; and, strive for justice and peace in all the earth. – (ELW page 234)

Add other milestone mementos to the box. Starting Sunday School, First Bible, Starting school, First Communion, Confirmation and all the others.



Celebrate! Invite the Sponsors



In the Waters of Baptism, sponsors made promises along with the congregation and the parents. give the sponsors an opportunity to be active in the faith lives of the baptized.

Each year, mark the days on your family calendar. Parents or kids that are old enough can send a note to the sponsors to remind them of the special anniversary. Celebrate with a special meal. Invite the sponsors. Talk about who was at the baptism day. Keep a scrapbook of pictures of the celebrations that you have had through the year.

Include the sponsors in the Affirmation of Baptism (Confirmation) process..





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